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Kevin Bemel ·

How to Be an Insider Who Gets the Job

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Many veterans tell me stories about not getting a job that they obviously qualify for. They can’t figure out why they lost out or didn’t even get a meeting with HR. It feels like when you were a kid and wanted to be in a particular club. Try as you might, they wouldn’t let you in. If your hunt for employment feels like constant rejection from the “in crowd,” you’re committing job search sin #7: Applying for a job at a company where you don’t have an internal advocate.

How to Be an Insider Who Gets the Job

The Huge Advantage of Getting Referred


About 7% of applicants for a job got referred by someone already working at the company. But 40% of people hired by a company come from employee referrals. Six times as many people apply for jobs through job boards. But only 15% of hires come from that source. Your chances of landing the job you want increase significantly when you have an advocate in your target company. Consider that:

You may be thinking that’s fine for employers, but what about me?

You’ll likely have greater job satisfaction if you’re referred to a company.

So if having an insider advocating for you is so great, why doesn’t every job searcher get one? Well, most people don’t have the basis for making the initial connection. And they won’t do the hard work to build the relationships.

As a veteran, neither of these hurdles stands in your way. Military people love to help each other out. And you’re used to working hard.

Becoming an Insider


Here’s where social media gives you a huge advantage. Once you’ve identified a target company, find another veteran who works there. Stick with someone who served in your branch of the service if possible. Then get in touch with the person and start building a relationship.

Earlier this year I wrote several posts on relationships building. They explain how to choose whom to connect with and the process of growing relationships. If you’re not sure how to get started select a topic, read up on it, then take action.

Learn what it takes to go from contact to relationship.

Build relationships physically, mentally, and spiritually. Keep in mind business relationships are first and foremost relationships.

How to spend your time creating relationships wisely.

How to make connections.

Prepare yourself to invest time.

Be on the lookout for fortunate opportunities to create relationships.

You may blow the first few contacts. But remember, you’re dealing with your fellow veterans. We’ve been there and want to help you. So be genuine, be open, and by all means be proactive! Get a company you want to work for in your sights. Then go find your internal advocate so you can be an insider and get a job you’ll love.

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